May 27, 2006
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I’m torn. I click on Bloglines and it looks tempting. I would like a bigger audience, who wouldn’t?
Or would I? Just seeing all these hits I’m getting from who knows where makes me wonder how wise it is to write such personal stuff. I actually try to discourage new readers by not returning comments. I ‘can’t hardly’ do justice to your posts, as it is.
I like my little group of friends. We all know and care about each other and I feel safe with you, saying whatever comes up. But it’s not just us, I see. It’s a whole bunch of strangers.
So then I think, why not go for a more public profile? But that’s ego talking (nod to R:) ) When I truly consider writing for strangers, about my lif — I can’t even finish that sentence because it’s so stupid. That’s what I’m doing with the book. And it’s one of the reasons I worry the book is not as interesting as the blog. I mean lately I worry about it; that the book feels somewhat stale compared to the blog. I feel like the writing is good but it’s like talking to myself. Plus it’s old news. Well, that’s just something I’ll have to keep in mind; keeping past tense alive.
So what do y’all think about Bloglines?
Comments (14)
I still haven’t figured out bloglines. Does have an address that starts www? such as …bloglines.com? And what do you do there? Sign up? Get seen by more people?
That seems to be it. I have trouble keeping up with the Xangans I already know. (We feel similarly.)
According to my footprints, a lot of people view me through bloglines. I like readership. So I guess that’s good.
Namaste to you, also. You make me miss my yoga practice, that I had to give up because I can’t afford the classes with my teacher any longer. I do have a CD she made and a few DVD’s–I take my sense of longing on seeing that word in your header as a “kick in the pants” to return to my practice. To that and maybe it is time to return to my local dojo for weekly Zen Buddhism meditation. My sensei is incredible! I love listening to his stories of wisdom after our practice. I even had the joy once of sitting beside my yoga instructor at one of our sessions, like a peer. Having both of my spiritual advisors in one room meant so much to me! Thank you for the reminder of my eastern inclinations!
I’ll have to check out the Bloglines myself–thank you for the “heads-up” about that site. I just turned off my Xanga-lock today, because I found from the footprints that I was getting a lot of hits from people who could not access my page because of the lock. I was a little afraid of strangers seeing my site, for I too feel funny writing when I know others will be viewing my page. But, like I said in one of my last entries, this is my journal, and instead of writing it in a bound journal like I used to, keeping it on a shelf in my room, I’m sharing it with others in case someone else is going through much of what I am, and my experiences or thoughts can help them out. I don’t know what anyone thinks of my page so far, for beyond the friend who introduced Xanga to me I haven’t had any comments, but just knowing that someday, someone who needed a lift to help them through a bad day or didn’t know how to deal with a dilemma or needed some outside inspiration to give them a boost may find what they need on my site motivates me to keep what I write public. I don’t write as much private stuff as my friend posts on her page, for I do eschew putting my most intimate revelations on-line on any site, but I’m trying to share as much as I can so I have it for myself to look back on later–to have a record of what was on my mind during this period of my life. If I help someone else–like you helped me with that simple word “Namaste” and posting your story “Apartment Hunting” (Fascinating and intriguing story! It reminds me that one of my main goals this summer before school starts again is to write for public consumption once again–with short-shorts being one of my focuses)–then my little journal was even more important than I had originally intended.
Sorry for writing so much, but you really did inspire me! I would love to hear from you, for there is so much about your profile and entries that fascinate me (along with my yoga and pilates DVD’s is a Bellydance video that I need to pay attention to again) but I do understand about having too many people to keep up with as it is. I have a long list of school friends I need to write to or call and I’m having trouble finding the time, despite not being in class.
Thank you for having your site on the web!
i have no answers to this. i think being a good writer calls for a certain amount of egotism but that’s a fairly new concept for me, so i’m not even sure that’s true!
LOL ryc: You didn’t miss much, except a quotation from Paul in Ephesians which I also objected to, though not as vehemently.
Bloglines? Never heard of it. I guess I’ll have to go take a look.
this is the second time you have mentioned it and i still ahve no idea what it is…
Since I’m the only person subscribed to you via Bloglines, I can unsub if you’d prefer not to have Bloglines check your blog for new posts. Bloglines doesn’t pick up private posts, btw. Just let me know…
I use Bloglines to read, but I don’t use it to blog. And it’s not really a network, as far as I can see. My Blogger site gets no traffic so I tend to ignore it. I like posting here because it’s a community, and because I know there are people that are actually reading.
I find it hard to keep up with my own subs – I want to read and comment for everyone, but its just not possible.
I know I went through the same thing when I first started blogging. Do you write for your audience or for yourself? Do you write to entertain and have the commenters coming back, or do you write to capture a piece of yourself without hamming it up?
As far as bloglines goes…I turned off my RSS feed. It creeped me out. I know that I could be tracked down if a stalker felt the need to inform my close personal circle of friends that I often write about (my bf, my mom, my husband).
The weird thing about bloglines was- whoever the subscriber on there was- they shared their list of fav’s- and it was primarily spanish blogs. I feel bad in a way, but at the same time, all the reader has to do is sign-in or subscribe and the blog is delivered via email. How easy is that?
I’m with some of the others, don’t know a thing about bloglines, don’t think I want a bigger audience than I have already!! Got a Picture of me on horseback..ugly as it is I will post it tomorrow..marilyn
i have no idea what a blogline is.
I went to look at it. It looks like a way to get all sorts of things all in one, via e-mail, I’m assuming. I have enough trouble keeping up with what I have. Until I can make it work the way I want it to (ie. get myself organized), I’ll have to pass on it. But go for it. If we didn’t want to be read by strangers (friends not met yet), we wouldn’t be posting online. I have a program called iDailyDiary on my computer and I could be journaling there, but I have my 6 online blogs…. [good thing I'm not a crook... I could be found so easily!]
I think I’ll leave well enough alone for now:)
Tought call.
I have a lot of people who read me at bloglines. Actually 126 subscribers for my blog and one for my podcast. So it is a way to expand your readership if that is what you are after.
But I don’t write personal stuff much. Just about stocks I own. So it does concern me that so many ‘strangers’ listen and read what I write.
I think I would keep your blog protected because of all the personal details that you share.
Bob