February 17, 2007
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I’ll just blurt this all out — don’t get excited, it’s not what you think — and refine it later for my intended use. Brenda, I thought of you as I sat down with this cup.
I’m sipping Jasmine tea, which was lovingly sold to me by a beautiful young man I would have jumped the counter for were it not for my bum knee and advanced years. Too many “for”s there. It’s odd that I’d use the tea set for the first time today, after buying it five years ago.
I retrieved it from the back of the kitchen cupboard, thrilled at my find. I’m speaking of the day I found it at an artist’s open house. She had a shop with this huge kiln behind her house. She needed it big to fit her whimsical, outdoor sculptures. From the shop led a stone path which wound through her garden, featuring pots that came up to my waist and odd figures that made me go around again. In her garage there were shelves with ”seconds”: odds-and-ends that never made it to the gallery.
The tea set cleans up even better than I remembered, round and chunky with an unusual glaze that now shines. We are served tea at recorder group but her set is flat and uniform, in color, and English, in shape. Or maybe Indian. Mine is Japanese but with an early 70′s look to it, though the artist’s name is on the bottom, and it says ’95.
I remember exactly how the young man said to brew it, letting water cool from the boil, having preheated the cup and pot. The jasmine leaves will lose their exotic smell and taste slightly bitter, if the water is too hot. The smell is intoxicating and the cup in front of me puts the previously used coffee cups to shame, though one is my favorite and also from her kiln. I always leave the cups lined up in front of the computer, switching from black tea, to red, to green throughout the day. When I’m being healthy.
Last night I went to the library and rifled through all the magazines I used to have subscriptions to. Beautiful clothes, gorgeous furniture, and luscious food; that’s what I took to bed. I woke up to an email from the organic farmer I buy from. He’d listed today’s bounty, plants I’d never heard of. When I got everything home I wasn’t sure what was for salad and what was for cooking. So I called him.
I laid out each pile of greens on a separate paper towel, and, one by one, we went through them. I’d chew a leaf, describe the taste and look, and he’d tell me the name. They all seemed to have two names: one Italian and one Japanese. He’d bought seeds for one of the bok choys in Japan and after only three seasons is still getting variability, “trying to stabilize the genes.” I can’t remember if I’ve described this guy to you but he is beyond eccentric, and after today’s tutorial I am even more impressed.
There were two plants, two different kinds of baby bok choy, that produced an energetic change in me. I was left smiling and tingly all over. I suddenly had an urge to be outside. The tree man came to prune my flowering cherry last week, and while my dog was tearing all over the front yard I went back to see it. What I mean to say is feel it. When I have the palms of my hands on its bark I get that same tingly feeling.
That made me want to walk down to the river but the dog is such a pain-in-the-ass, on the leash, that we turned back home. As soon as I got in the house I thought of the tea pot. I wasn’t sure why but I knew I had to find it.
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It’s exhilerating when you open your mind and shove the mundane to the back. Just finding the teapot, was a breath of fresh air, much less the walk.
I found the baby bok choy at the organic store, myself. (Geez…what we get off on at our age) I thought…I have to have that. Took it home, cooked it up and it seemed a little ….tasteless. I was a little disappointed but it was beautiful!
Prudy, when I see you’ve posted, I go right here to see what you’ve written. Such fun, always!
the touching of all the senses here, all the links of all the natural worlds – lovely.
Interesting story. I love the way you describe your intake of the senses. So much delight and appreciation.
i think of a true lifeforce…when we are open to the possibility of sensing it, then we do.
i am not much of a tea drinker. i love coffee. 1/2 caff though. the tea i do drink, in the summer, sweetened and with my lemons/limes, i make from tea leaves…nothing prepackaged. it’s nirvana…
You’re giddy, ready for spring and alive, you delight the senses Prudy, you always do. marilyn
There is something about cherry blossoms for me and I don’t think I’ve ever seen one in person. It’s a memory of a lovely man once upon a time.
This post makes me think perhaps i should slow down a bit and savor life.I think I may go brew some tea… it will be ordinary tea but I can pretend for now:)
I now feel the need for exploration into yet another realm. Bok choy and other greens have been missing from my diet of late. You make them sound so good.
This whole entry makes me want to relax. I think after I am finished reading, I will do just that.
How lovely! I never learned to make “real” tea, just the kind where you let a bag float around in hot water. You make the whole experience sound so special I know I’ve been missing out on a great pleasure! I thoroughly enjoyed this piece.
You have a very sensual way of writing.
You’ve made me want to go brew a pot of jasmine tea and serve it in the tea set my sister gave me last summer. I always think I’ll get to it and I haven’t yet. Today, I will.
This entry is delicious. I don’t mean only the taste of the beautiful things you describe – but ever sensual and philosophical and… ambient element here.
You have that effect on me.
Death in my family is an odd thing. I know it depends on who has died – not so much their personality as the personalities and reactions of those around them. When my mom’s dad died, she had been taking care of him and watching him wilt from self-destruction. My mom had been there for months and he’d been destructive his entire adult life, it seemed. We were relieved to see him go because my grandmother could be free. They could clear out the house and begin living in it again. And I had a strange and powerful moment with my grandfather the moment he died. I’m convinced that’s what it was, anyway. I don’t know if you remember my trying to describe it in a post. We were back at the grandparents’ house and grandpa was miles away in a hospital bed. I was half-asleep when my mind or soul or whatever bolted into a sort of intense purgatory state for maybe thirty seconds but what felt like minutes. Horrors flashed before my eyes and deep regret filled my heart. Then I felt some sort of atonement and relief and the promise of paradisal hugs or something. Here, things are different. The family dynamic was different. My dad’s mom’s mom was the matriarch and I spent a lot of time with her. There was no thought in my mind of sin or change, just a sort of waiting for several years for the inevitable, for her to cease existence on this plane in a quiet snuffing, as the candle smoke very elegantly and gracefully wafts away into etherea.
Or something like that. *big hugs*
seems you are in tune with your body and nature- the needs- energy attracting energy. Have you read “Anger” by Thich Nhat Hanh- He talks about how we are what we eat.
ryc: I doubt getting rid of dances will stop them grinding! They could of course require a 6 inch space between people dancing together, grinding to the air doesn’t seem so bad! lol…
If you want a long read about the whole Grandpa trip, here ya go http://www.xanga.com/BoureeMusique/530309125/every-song-has-a-story.html. The mystical connection death experience comes near the end of the “piece.” One day I’ll have to go back and reread and rewrite it, relive it, include new things, and polish it.
RYC: Not so much expertise as experience. Don’t be afraid to holler if you want some help jazzing up your site.
RYC - You know, don’t you, that now I have to go back and reread a bunch of my own posts to try and see what you’re seeing/hearing?
I’m drinking pure hibiscus bloom tea right now. Its the closest I come to anything new age
I’m drinking pure hibiscus bloom tea right now. Its the closest I come to anything new age
Beautiful writing! I’m not much of a tea drinker myself
I feel like I took a kind of sensual journey, reading that.
I was given 6 different kinds of green tea for Christams. I’ve never thought of having more than one kind available at a time.
Do you watch The Dog Whisperer? I swear that man’s a genius with dogs…
I love you…GFW
Hello!
I do not cook with recipe but I will search for some simple Vietnamese food recipes for you.
Thank you so much for your kind comment. You have no idea how much it meant to me this morning! Have a great day~
No microwavable version of that tea???
ryc …Its funny isn’t it how different being older is from the inside then from the vantage point of the young.The only issue i have with it is that it means i have less time then i once did left on the planet.
Tea time is a darn good time for sure. Glad you found that unexpected delight
…and then POOF! you are gone again…
Come on back to us, Pru.