February 3, 2006
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My left leg is throbbing. A month ago, at one of those Wednesday night classes I attend at the herbal shop, I threw it out of whack doing qigong. We did a rapid, repetitive kicking motion, thrusting the leg forward in order to release tension in the knee joint. I released something all right. The odd thing was I didn’t know it. Maybe a week later it started to hurt, and I could think of no other way I might have done it.
Then, the other day I lost my balance and had to right myself using the bad leg. This pain shot up my leg and I just about fell down. Whatever hinging action was supposed to happen, didn’t. It was just like when your back is out of alignment, I could tell whatever was wrong with my knee was something that might right itself. So at the herb shop I picked up all kinds of stuff to help with inflammation. I just happen to have one of my six-month follow-ups with the surgeon next Mon, so I can get a referral and an X-ray then.
I was doing a lot better today until I put all my weight on that foot again, without thinking, and it was like a cable slipping out of its groove; that’s what it felt like. Now I can barely walk and it hurts behind the knee, as well as down the back, left side of my calf. Does this sound at all familiar? I don’t know anything about knee injuries.
So, today was a rough day. The market was down and I came dangerously close to having to sell something at a loss. Two things, actually. Bob’s the only one I know who likes stocks but he’s got a busy career, a wife, and lives in another state. So today I went looking for a stock buddy I could call.
Bob suggested I start a stock club and in my hunt to find existing clubs in Portland I ended up on the phone with a woman who oversees NAIC (National Assoc. of Investors Corp.) stock clubs in my area. Things were going swimmingly until she mentioned something about the software they used. I started asking questions and she fairly gasped, “Are you a daytrader?”
“No,” I said, “But, after a week like we’ve had, I’m beginning to feel like one. I sell at an 8% loss or with a 30% gain, then 60% and on up, selling a sixth at a time”
“Oh,” she said, and I could hear the scorn, “You’re a technical investor.”
I had no idea what that was but I could tell it wasn’t what she was.
“There is a group here in Portland,” she said, “who deal only in growth stocks, where you’d be a better fit, except that you’re a woman and they only take men.”
I tried to get off the phone at this point, thinking of the ad I was going to have to write up for the Willamette Week, our local rag.
Wanted: Stock buddy. Preferably a woman but a gay man would be nice. Are you passionate about the stock market; love to talk about trading? If you’ve made a profit in the last year, you’re not into hedge funds or options, and you are comfortable talking on the phone, at length, or reading my long Emails please contact me.
She wanted me to come to their “wine and cheese,” so I could scope out the different clubs. She assured me there were people who came, but who weren’t in a club; had their own strategy. Then she told me about the Model Club I could attend, to see what their strategy was all about. It ought to be interesting. I just hope I don’t have to show up with a cane.
Comments (18)
Oh that ad is good. And I enjoyed the way you intertwined the two subjects (while keeping them separate and understandable at the same time)with that last line. And that woman comes off as a real character. I wanted to smack her.
But on a more personal note, OUCH. I had something like you describe in my ankle. I’ve forgotten about it and gone down a few times due to the shock of pain when it’s out of line. Here’s hoping you knee slips painlessly back into action.
They have a men’s only club? That’s BS. I’ve been a part of two men’s only things under the condition that I never divulge my participation outside of the groups. (Both groups have since disbanded.) I wouldn’t do it again, felt too much like being a traitor. Still, it’s not too hard to get into some all boys clubs if you get to meet the men involved and they see that you’re okay (many of them are all about rule bending). I wonder if this one is all men so as to avoid the gold digger element. If they are, you could easily prove that you’re legit, that is if you ever wanted to. I can understand why you wouldn’t.
Hi Prudy. Sorry about your leg. The herbs should help. Just try to stay off of it. (I know, easier said than done.) I can’t offer to be your stock buddy unfortuantely, you’d lose for sure if I gave you advice
Feel better. ~Stephenie
The knee sounds painful. I hope it heals well and quickly, and doesn’t require any invasive procedures. Wish I could offer to be your stock buddy, since I’m local, but I wouldn’t be of much use.
I do want to let you know that some other artists and I are having a trunk show next week, though. I’ll email you the details.
Healing wishes for your knee! Hope you find a good stock buddy.
I wish I could help on the injury. I have had my fair share of sports related problems, but nothing like you are describing. Get to the doc!
I hate “clubs”. I never seem to fit. But, I can understand your need, so good luck to ya. If anyone gives you trouble wack ‘em with the cane.
Hoping your knee is better by the time you read this. I pulled a ligament in my side trying to do kick-boxing. Seems that it takes forever to heal. Also wishing you good luck finding a stock club.
Bet your lower back is out Prudy, get to the Chiropractor!! Hey I’m not in Arizona with my mom, only posting the pictures of the house that I took there…Now I am going back to Arizona, just 6 days after I got home…..Day trading is really what you do, and like I said before,,,,,very scary…marilyn
Ouch–on many levels. The knee, the disdain the woman’s voice, the men’s only clubs… I hope EVERYTHING comes into alignment somehow.
Have the knee looked at!
hope your knee gets better i have two knee scopes under my belt hope you don’t need that
johnny in south carolina
I hope the knee improves. The pain you describe is so tangible! Even (and especially) when you’re hurting, you write so well. Men’s clubs are hooey and poo. I think I understand the idea, though. Good luck with the market. Keep reading. Take some stocks from random places, don’t buy, and just watch what they do. I’m sure you’ve done a ton of that. Oh, and canes are distinguished and not geezerly at all!
Men’s only club? What year is it? I agree with the person who wrote above about trying to meet them and see if they will accept you.. I was the only female on a basketball team in high school and it was fun, although I was intimidated by all the hot, older guys… but that is another story!
Good luck with your knee/leg! Pain sucks! I hope the cane scenario does not exist!
Your -8/30/60 rule is technical trading instead of fundamental trading. Read this and tell me whether you think it applies:
http://www.investopedia.com/terms/t/technicalanalysis.asp
ryc: Yes, we are free now. And I can’t do the crying anymore either. I think I needed the catharsis of writing it out. I completely undertand what you said about the horrible things not really fitting. As things wound down he would forget important things and say things that just didn’t make sense. Where I think weed is a great medicial tool at times, after seeing what it does over time to an habitual user, I am very reticent to be around it anymore.
Freedom is sweet and we have so much more left!
Thanks, I needed that. I was trying to be creative but knew that it needed edited. I fixed it up some. Take a peek if you like.
Does your leg feel any better? Hopefully you’ve been resting it. ~S
ryc: YOU are definately on there! I will pass it along to sharazad about your post to miss mia!
Hope your knee heals soon, you really have juggled alot of stuff!!!!! Diane
when we were paying attention to stocks- E. would always go to Motley Fool’s site – they have a forum for every stock out there I think. Lots of good advice… Technical=aggressive which means more volatile… Growth is more safety I believe.
{{{{{{{{{{{+++++++++++++}}}}}}}}}}}} for your leg problems… hope it’s something that heals quickly.